Men & Women

Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus they say... sometimes it becomes difficult to believe that men and women are so distant... the understanding of things... reactions etc... very alike...

And sometimes... i feel that its impossible that v are even from the same galaxy... such a difference in emotions and reactive behavior.

Men always say that women are complicated... the mood swings.. the yap yap... aaah!!!! And women say that men are also very difficult to fathom... the anger.. the possessiveness... the abusing... aaah!!!!

I think its high time we all just admit to the fact that yes, men and women are poles apart... but v are not from two different planets... v live on the same ol' planet earth... so its high time v stop trying to change each other... and "simplify" things... v should just accept the fact that there are differences and deal with it!!!

Mood swings in women are ordinarily vey subtle.. however due to the lack of tolerance it gets aggravated easily.... so .. men... try being sweet to your ladies if u find them moody one fine day... treat them like princesses... just dont go over board...

Men are possessive and protective cuz the care.... Women... we mother our men as well... being our shields is just their way of telling us that they care... so next time your man is getting protective... accept it... n if u dont like it... still accept it... cuz u cant really help it!!!

We all feel the pinch of emotions... why then does everyone try to camouflage it... men... women.... telling your loved one wat you truly feel is not rude n neither is it gay... it will only lead to better understanding between the two of you... n the relief to your friends will be an added bonus...

I really dont know the reason for all the gyaan in this post... guess i just needed to dish it out one more time!!! hope it helped you as a reader... if it dint.. n u still need help... call me!!!

cheers!!

Unpredictability and me!!

The unpredictability of life is the beauty of life. Nonetheless, every one alsways speaks of why it is oh so important to plan. We have set boundaries for our feelings and a set behavioural pattern for situations. And then people complain that life is routine, mundane and boring. We choose to plan what we want, what we feel and how we react. I know life is a stage, but the beauty of it is that no one knows the script. Why then doesnt anyone improvise. And when one does, they are being "irresponsible" and "immature"

I beg to differ. I think maturity is not restrained to planning and seriousness. We plan out our whole lives and loose out on opprtunities to get surprised, we drive away any chance of getting swept off our feet by life. We miss out on times when the simplicity of life would give us a smile that could really go a mile.

We want to want certain things in life, and we behave in a way that we think is the set pattern to achieve it. Why dont we try taking a detour in this path of life... maybe miss a train... befriend a stranger... hitch hike....

Maybe I am wrong in some ones opinion, but i love thefact that even today, a slight compliment delights me, I find it mandatory to do a gud deed, I write what i truly feel. Yes, I maybe very different from a normal "mordern girl".... But you know what... i have just one goal in life... HAPPINESS... and i achieve it every day!!!!